“Maybe they have the real army for war kept away at some other place.”Low morale and corruption in the military are so widespread that it is the norm rather than the exception for soldiers to be extorting bribes from merchants crossing the Chinese border.”We say something is wrong with you if you did not save enough in 10 years of service at the border to go home, get married and start a family,” Kim said.SOAP OPERA NIGHTSDespite efforts by authorities to keep foreign influences out, there are far fewer secrets about life outside the reclusive state. The might of the army is “invincible,” according to state media but the refugees are rather cynical about the ill equipped force.”When I look at them, the army that I’ve seen will be busy running away from a war,” another refugee Kim said. “The general has aged a lot,” she said of her impression of seeing recent pictures of Kim looking frail and perhaps debilitated by the stroke.”SOLDIERS FOR FIGHTING? NOT HERE”North Korea is the world’s most militarized state compared to its population with a standing army of more than 1.1 million Service is mandatory and can be as long as 10 years. “It is true that he has sacrificed so much for the people,” she said. “It’s the people who report to him who are not doing their job right. They make false reports.” Choi said she knew from experience that crop production is something that gets most often falsified “so as not to make the General worry.”Most refugees still call Kim Jong-il the “General” as has been taught to them by state propaganda and have bought into, at least partially, his carefully crafted cult of personality.Park said she knows Kim often stays up at night worried about the lives of the people.

That is the portly and oldest of Kim’s three known sons, believed to have fallen from his father’s favor years ago after being arrested for trying to enter Japan on a forged passport.”I don’t want to say Kim Jong-il is bad,” another refugee Choi said. Most North Koreans have no idea that Kim, 67 and thought to have suffered a stroke a year ago, has three sons.”In Pyongyang, you take it for granted that leadership will be inherited,” one refugee Park said, adding she knew Kim Jong-il had two daughters and a son and his name was Jong-nam. Their identities are not disclosed because they fear persecution for family and relatives back home.”SAD TO SEE THE DEAR GENERAL SO FEEBLE”It is a political crime to talk about the family of leader Kim Jong-il but many recently arrived refugees said the average North Korean is probably aware of foreign media reports that Kim’s youngest son Jong-un may likely take over. Most left for the chance of a better life in the South but they are uncertain if they can find their way in the competitive capitalist state.The following is a snapshot of life in North Korea, compiled from accounts given by refugees who recently arrived in the South. World  |  Lifestyle  |  China  |  Japan  |  South Korea  |  North KoreaBy all accounts, they say North Korea is gradually spiralling out of control, its economy dysfunctional while people are suspicious of one another because of a network of informants.They also speak of a sense of normalcy in the North.

On the Web, visit Photos/Multimedia Gallery Available: http://, Inc.Tammie Dodson, Copyright Business Wire 2009. SEOUL (Reuters) – North Koreans who recently arrived in the South live in a world of contradictions where their upbringing instills them with reverence for Kim Jong-il but their daily struggle leads them to believe he is a brutal despot. service provider andmany global ones, as well as by thousands of public, private and governmentalorganizations worldwide. For more information, contact the company at 800 9ADTRAN (800 923-8726) or viaemail at .